Friday, November 10, 2006

Divorce - Britney & K-Fed style

Greg of Crowhill Manor makes some excellent points about divorce. As usual, he is concise and right on target.

I would propose an amendment to his solution: if the spouse walking away from the marriage without reason is the primary income source, he or she should pay through the nose for the "privilege" of walking away. Similarly, if the spouse walking away without cause is not the primary income earner, he or she should not be rewarded with monetary payments.

I'm amazed that the religious right is so worked up about gay marriage, and yet Christians and the Church in general treat heterosexual marriage and divorce so cavalierly. You want to protect marriage in America? Begin with reforming your attitude about divorce. I'm against gay marriage because it's a spiritual slap in the face of God who ordained marriage to be between a man and a woman. But gay marriage is a piddling threat to society compared to what rampant divorce and remarriage has done in the last 30 years.

There is now no shame associated with divorce, and celebrity marriages and divorces illustrate that all too well. Britney is barely an adult, and yet she's already married and divorced twice, and now she's depriving her very, very young children of a full-time relationship with their father. He may be a slob, but she's no princess either. Selfish. Immature. Disgusting. And it's the children who ultimately suffer.

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Thursday, October 19, 2006

Life Abundantly

KMR wanted to know if I'd post something on what she told me earlier this evening.

OK, I'll bite.

She was thinking about the curse of the Fall, and how as a result our work is toil. If Adam hadn't sinned he, and us in him, would have earned life. Work without toil is what we would have. But we don't. However, the new heavens and earth will be like that life we lost. That's motivation for hoping Christ will come soon.

And she's right. In Adam we could have had life, but instead in Adam we all died. But in Christ we are made alive, and in Him we have not just the life we lost, but life more abundant. The first Adam became a living being, but the second Adam became a life-giving spirit.

I once heard someone say that if in six days God made the heavens and the earth, and all good and perfect, how much more wonderful will be the place He has been preparing for us ever since?

Maranatha!

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